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Posted:Jan 5, 2012 11:03 am
Last Updated:Jan 6, 2012 11:58 am
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During my break from blogland not much went on in my life except the couple of things I blogged about already.
I did want to tell you all that my visit with my nieces and nephew was awesome. They are no longer angry about us not seeing and talking to them since their Father's death, the eldest now knows that it was her Mom that kept us from them not us just blowing them off. This takes a huge worry off my shoulders, now they know they still have our love and support. They seem to be doing ok, though the new man in their Mom's life is.. how do I put it, um much stricter than my brother was with them. Some of the stuff they told us about concerns all of us however, we are just going to keep our eyes and ears open at this point. If we see or hear anything we know is against the law we are going to report them..
Another thing that happened was our of 15 years passed away the day after Christmas. We shall miss her dearly. She was an outside but still she was a great dog. She use to watch over my boys when they played outside when we lived in a not so great of neighborhoods. She actually ended up running off a couple of people who were up to no good with my boys.
Let me see is there anything else blog worthy  ..
Not that I can remember.
Oh no Titty Thursday this week, I havent had the time or privacy to get it done. The just went back to school, man this holiday break felt as long as a summer break 
Even though I will love having more time to myself now ,I will miss him. I enjoyed the having him around more..
have a great day.
much love {=}
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my collection of HNW
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Posted:Jan 4, 2012 10:08 am
Last Updated:May 3, 2012 6:15 pm
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why I blog
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Posted:Jan 3, 2012 11:28 am
Last Updated:Jan 6, 2012 12:35 pm
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My blog is my virtual Garden where I go to find refugee from this world and it's problems.
Where I go to have my senses awakened and sometimes even aroused, just like in my real garden.
If you enjoy your senses being aroused than this might be the blog for you.
Some say I am a tease, I am not. I am just a person who enjoys writing erotica
and enjoys arousing the senses of others, a mental exhibitionist so to speak (sometimes a physical one)
I love and appreciate the wide varieties of flowers
I have in my real garden and enjoy that here as well.
another reason why I blog is .....
Shared joy is double joy and shared sorrow is half-sorrow.
I share lily pics because they bring me so much joy.
I share my jokes for they give me so much joy too.
I share my naughty thoughts for they bring me joy.
Sharing my personal pics well that does something to.
Sharing life's sorrows helps lighten their load.
So there you have it.
Not to mention sex is my favorite subject to talk about !
Have an awesome day everyone 
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the fantasy of it all.. where do you draw the line ??
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Posted:Jan 3, 2012 10:50 am
Last Updated:Jan 5, 2012 11:07 am
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Sometimes I struggle with how this place makes me feel.
I wonder if anyone else does... people who are not in a committed relationship
probably don't but what about the ones that are in committed relationships.
Do you ever feel like you are mentally cheating on your significant other when
you get turned on by what what you see, say and/or experience here ?
I am talking about emails blogs videos and cams etc etc..
I have on occasion, not many times but there have been a few over the years
that I have been a member here.. Usually it's when I would be ever so tempted
in the real world to move beyond flirting with such said person..
The way I see this place is like when you are out in the real world and you flirt
around with others. When you see someone that sends sensations to all those wonderful places we have.
I have always been flirty, I don't try to be, its just the way I am..
I really never saw any harm in it when I worked outside of the home..
I actually think it's rather healthy for a relationship.
As one of my commenter stated this place can ignite your fire.. Don't we all need that occasionally ?
Especially when we have been with your lover for awhile or when a couple is to busy
with life and work to get the mood going for the evening..
What I mean is you get on here, get all turned on, then use it to get your evening with your lover going.
I don't mean you think about that person you use that fire.
As I said there have been a few whom I have been tempted to take it beyond flirting,
whom when I go to have sex with my husband that I can't get out of my head.. for me this is where I draw the line..
I either quite visiting talking or whatever to this person and try to move on..
I do the same out there in the real world as well.
What I have figured out about me and this place is I use it like porno, as a tool to ignite my fire,
and if you know me that usually means
naughty posts and such and by what I read..
I bet many many people use this place just like me.
I should say I also use it to find and communicate with friends too  Love ya guys anyways,
The question I still have is where is the line between fantasizing and mentally cheating ????
Do you think flirting is wrong when one is in a committed relationship ?
Do you use this place for/as like I do, the same reason ?
Do you think it is wrong of me to use you for igniting my fires ?
oh the wonderful fantasy of it all, where do you draw the line ?
much love {=}
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touch myself, sometimes ?
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Posted:Jan 2, 2012 12:08 pm
Last Updated:Jan 7, 2012 10:28 am
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Sometimes, this place makes me wanna touch myself !
Does it you ?
How about today ?
aren't those panties sweet ?
I have a thing for pink panties ya know.
I even own a few pairs.
much love {=}
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ok here it goes.. ugh drama
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Posted:Jan 2, 2012 10:08 am
Last Updated:Jan 7, 2012 10:31 am
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Drama, you have no idea how much I hate it !
I do everything I can to avoid it, which is not always a good thing. Overlooking things comes with the territory as well,
I'm not saying I wear blinders though.
I'm saying I avoid confrontation unless it' absolutely necessary..
ok here it goes..
Over the last couple of years, I started seeing changes in my marriage and changes in my husbands habits and schedules.
Nothing to major but after 23 years together you notice things and start to wonder.
I of course never brought it up, the whole avoiding confrontation thing ya know. Besides, it could easily be nothing..I trusted him completely. He could be going through his own problems.
I will tell you this much after awhile some of the things made me think he was loosing interest in me not just sexually, relationship wise. I did bring these things up in a casual way to him and never got a response of any kind except oh I am still into you so on and so forth.
This did not help the situation, in my eyes and heart it justified my doubts even more..
So needless to say when I started seeing hard evidence against him I choose no longer to avoid it,
I confronted him and he denied anything was going on and became very angry at me, his anger screamed guilty in my eyes.
So during my absence I was dealing with the fact my husband was cheating on me..and what I was going through personally about the deaths and such.. Needless to say I was rather pathetic broken even, though I hid it very well.
Then it happened evidence turned up to nullify my evidence more importantly and finally some good communication brought to light in fact he was not having an affair.
so there ya all go.
All of this just goes to prove even more so that things are not as they seem to appear
and it goes to prove that when in a relationship people shouldn't keep their partners in the dark for so long and completely about what is going on with them.
This does however bring to my mind that people do have the right to their privacy and shouldn't have to share everything little thing with their partners but they should at least share enough to keep their partner in loop so to speak, it's a matter of respect for their feelings I believe.
so, Communicate people communicate !!
much love {=}
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For you... What ?
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Posted:Jan 1, 2012 9:40 am
Last Updated:Jan 5, 2012 11:07 am
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wow it's 2012, it's kind of hard to believe, where did all the years ago ?
Here are some thoughts and wishes for you on this New Years Day.
“We will open the book. Its pages are blank.
We are going to put words on them ourselves.
The book is called Opportunity and its first chapter is New Year's Day.”
-Edith Lovejoy Pierce
Dance as if no one were watching,
sing as if no one were listening
and live every day as if it were your last.
"In the New Year, may your right hand always be stretched out in friendship, but never in want."
-traditional Irish toast
What would the title of your book be?
What song would you sing and dance to today?
What could you receive today so you no longer would be in need?
much love {=}
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some Hard liquor and some KINKY sex
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Posted:Dec 31, 2011 11:46 am
Last Updated:Jan 4, 2012 8:49 am
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Hey Everybody !
I'm poppin' in to say hello
and to wish everyone a safe and wonderful New Years 
Didn't think I'd let this holiday pass without at least doing that did ya !
I plan on saying saying good riddance to 2011 and
welcoming in 2012 the way I like the best 
with some hard liquor and some kinky sex !
For me, nothing rids me of my stress better than some of both !!
Though I think this year it's gonna take alot of both to get the job done
Be safe, Be happy
miss ya all
much love {=}
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me ? now THIS puts a smile on my face
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Posted:Dec 22, 2011 7:49 am
Last Updated:Dec 31, 2011 2:46 pm
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So you guys wanna know how I am doing well, I'm hanging in there.
Wish I could say I was feeling awesome but I am not, hopefully this funk of mine will pass soon.
Life is just to short to stay down for to long.
I do have a bit of good news though, We get to see my baby brother's and they get to stay overnight !
So now there is last minute Christmas party planning to do and I am loving every minute of that
Now this puts a smile on my face.
I just hope my guilty feelings don't get the best of me....
So I'm off to find some Christmas party games and ideas for homemade Christmas tree ornaments.
Do any of you guys have suggestions for games or ornammnent ideas ?
much love {=}
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Titty THURSday (pics)
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Posted:Dec 22, 2011 7:27 am
Last Updated:Dec 31, 2011 3:00 pm
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A couple of years ago I started titty tuesday to celebrate my birthday and my love of titties.
Though I am now calling it titty thursday it is still a celebration of titties.
Don't ya just Love them ?
Big titties, Little titties,
it makes no difference to me, I love them all.
If you want to join in the celebration all you do is include the number that is next to your favorite titty pics.
You can vote as many times as you would like.
These are images I searched for, none are member pics.
In 6 months I will do a best of the best post.
I hope you enjoy the ones I picked out for all of you.
Here's the first post of two posts of pics to choose from
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poppin' in
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Posted:Dec 20, 2011 9:43 am
Last Updated:Dec 31, 2011 2:49 pm
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Just poppin' in to say hello to everyone
I hope everyone is doing fine and ready for christmas
much love {=}
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I have no doubt... if I could
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Posted:Dec 14, 2011 9:16 am
Last Updated:Dec 31, 2011 2:07 pm
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"A friend is someone who reaches for your hand, but touches your heart."
- Kathleen Grove
If I could I'd send a Christmas bouquet just like that one, to say
thank you to everyone who reached out to me over the last few days and touched my heart.
It truly means alot to me.
I am still down, but I am doing better.
Things seem to always look better after a couple of good nights sleeps don't they.
I might not be on the next couple of days. Have no doubt though,
I will return.
much love {=}
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