What's Your Fetish?
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Posted:Apr 21, 2008 8:03 am
Last Updated:Apr 21, 2008 8:06 am
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Some people aren't sure if they even have a fetish while others think that their fetishes are abnormal. So what is a fetish? If you have a fetish, you are obsessively fixated on either an object or a body part.
I am not sure that I have a full blown fetish but I do love to see women in nylons or stockings. Very sexy!
The word fetish originally meant "charm," and it originates from the 15th century Portuguese word feitico , which means false power, object or charm. For example, when the Portuguese explored West Africa and encountered native religions, they called whatever talisman (totems, carvings, beads) they revered a fetish.
A fetish involves the transfer of power from an original source onto a substitute. Second, a fetishist is someone who operates outside the circle of what is characteristically considered normal. Ok, so what is normal nowadays?
There are many diverse kinds of fetishes, depending on the object being fetishized. Inanimate fetishes come in three varieties -- media, form and animate.
In a media fetish, material is what is obsessed over. Media fetishes include rubber, leather, latex, and silk.
With a form fetish, it's the shape of the object that has great significance. Stiletto heels, knee-high boots and lingerie fall into this category.
Feet, hair, butts, breasts, and all that good stuff are also considered fetishes, but since these objects are human, they're called "animate" fetishes.
One on-line men's site indicates that the number one fetish is voyeurism and exhibitionism. A lot of guys admitted that they couldn't get off with their partner unless they were watching pornography or another couple in the act. Even if they witnessed two people having sex or caught some erotic movies on television when not with their partner, they had to masturbate.
Only a minute amount of women admitted that they are voyeuristic to the point where they needed to see sex while engaging in it. Oddly enough, however, quite a few women like being watched .
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Useless But Perhaps Interesting Sex News
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Posted:Apr 20, 2008 5:10 pm
Last Updated:May 21, 2024 11:0 pm
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Massage parlors in a small Indonesian town are asking their female workers to padlock their skirts and pants to make it clear they're offering only massages,not sex.
The move has been protested by the women's affairs minister of Indonesia, where massage parlors are often a front for . She said the padlocks insult women "as if they are the ones in the wrong."
At least one parlor in a tourist town on Java island has required its masseuses to padlock their skirts or trousers to make it clear the establishment does not tolerate .
Others in the town started following suit after local officials met with owners and suggested it's a good idea.
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Bi Bi Miss American Pie
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Posted:Apr 20, 2008 9:21 am
Last Updated:May 21, 2024 11:0 pm
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Remember the famous quote of Carrie Bradshaw of "Sex and the City" who once questioned whether bisexuality actually exists or whether it's just a "layover on the way to gaytown."
Seems that a new study reveals that bisexuality is for real. A new study in 2008 finds that bisexuality in women appears to be a distinctive sexual orientation and not an experimental or transitional stage that some women adopt "on their way" to lesbianism.
The study concluded that "This provides further support for the notion that female sexuality is relatively fluid and that the distinction between lesbian and bisexual women is not a rigid one."
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Sex Tip Of The Week
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Posted:Apr 19, 2008 9:14 am
Last Updated:Apr 19, 2008 9:25 am
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Add some taste to oral sex and rub his penis with a mint-flavored lube.
When you go to a party, wear some edible panties and wait till you can find a secluded place. Ask him to eat your panties.
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Sizing Them Up
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Posted:Apr 18, 2008 9:32 pm
Last Updated:Apr 18, 2008 9:32 pm
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One study regarding the breast size of women reveals that a man's ideal breast size is consistently larger than the breast size women prefer, and men also prefer a significantly larger chest size. Despite an increasing cultural emphasis on large chest size, there was a significant decrease in the chest size preferred by women across the surveyed groups. The chest size men think women prefer, however, has increased.
In another study involving college men, a survey of 95 male students found that those who preferred small breasts were more likely to be religious, less likely to drink and smoke and more likely to be depressed.
Yet another study involving 275 men, the average "perfect" breast was 3.84 on a scale of 5, with 1 being an AA cup and 5 being a D.
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Thick Is Best
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Posted:Apr 18, 2008 4:52 am
Last Updated:Apr 18, 2008 4:54 am
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A British study has found that women prefer a thick penis. The reason is that the greatest number of nerve endings are in the lowest part of the vagina. Therefore when a thick penis pushes against the labia and lower vaginal walls, it provides intense, pleasurable sensation.
The irony is that men spend so much time thinking about their anatomy when they should be thinking about hers. "It's a man's knowledge of female anatomy and ability to stimulate a woman in all the right ways that determines whether or not we’re happy in bed, "says the study's author.
And don’t forget foreplay. "Twenty minutes of erotic foreplay with a guy who has a penis the size of a Sharpie will be far hotter than 2 minutes of sloppy groping from a dude with a johnson the size of a flashlight, " says the study.
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Just Pick Up The Condoms
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Posted:Apr 16, 2008 9:57 pm
Last Updated:Apr 16, 2008 9:59 pm
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Public sex is becoming more and more popular worldwide apparently. Now comes news that the police's National Diversity Expertise Centre (LECD) in the Netherlands wants sex allowed in all public parks. The police institute has advised the cities to follow the example of Amsterdam.
In a curious twist,in Amsterdam's Vondelpark, owners of dogs let off the leash can be fined, but sex will shortly be permitted. "Why should we try to maintain something that is actually impossible to maintain, which also causes little bother for others and for a certain group actually signifies much pleasure?" says an alderman in the Oud-Zuid district of Amsterdam.
The alderman confirmed that the plan to tolerate public sex in Vondelpark is part of a draft version of new rules of conduct for the city's best-known park. The regulations are to come into force after the summer. "Of course there are strict rules attached. Condoms must always be cleared away, it must never take place in the neighborhood of 's playgrounds and the sex must be restricted to the evening and night-time."
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Does Size Really Matter?
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Posted:Apr 15, 2008 9:10 pm
Last Updated:Apr 16, 2008 7:41 pm
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Small penis syndrome" is a psychological condition in which a man thinks his manhood is too small, even though he's really on par with the rest of mankind. Does size matter to her?
That question was addressed by British researchers in a scholarly article recently.
Their findings, in a nutshell : 63 percent of men complained of having inferior hardware -- but none of them was smaller than normal! (Normal is between 5.5 and 6.2 inches long when erect and 4.7 to 5.1 inches around.
In addition, 85 percent of women said they were happy with their partner’s size.
A noted sexologist says that we men should worry more about her pleasure than our size. According to the sexologist, "Usually when women complain about a small penis, it's also that they're not having orgasms. If they’re orgasming, it'll matter a hell of a lot less what size your penis is."
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Getting The Heart Rate Up
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Posted:Apr 14, 2008 9:03 pm
Last Updated:May 21, 2024 11:0 pm
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I know we are all looking for ways to burn off those calories with some good cardio exercise. So what's a good cardio workout? How about some hot sex? Just 30 minutes of heart-pounding sex can burn between 100-200+ calories depending on your weight and how vigorous you are. That's about the same as spending 20 minutes on the stair master.
By having sex three times a week for an entire year, you could be burning around 30,000 calories! That would work off the calories from 52 Big Macs. Maybe I don't need to go to the gym. 
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Let's Do It In The Park
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Posted:Apr 13, 2008 9:14 pm
Last Updated:Apr 14, 2008 3:19 am
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Here is what one on-line site has as the Top Five Fantasies for Men:
1. Fantasies About Your Current Partner
2. Having Sex with a Woman Other Than Your Partner
3. Giving or Receiving Oral Sex
4. Sex with Two or More Women
5. Voyeurism and Exhibitionism
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I Say "Large"... You Say "Generous"
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Posted:Apr 13, 2008 5:03 pm
Last Updated:Apr 19, 2008 8:30 am
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Had an interesting conversation the other night with an TSmeet female friend. We were chatting and I happened to mention that I loved large breasts. Oops, apparently the wrong thing to say.
She told me that was not nice. She said that women preferred the word generous as opposed to large. I indicated to her that I had never had a female tell me that she objected to that description.
So was my use of "large" to describe breasts offensive and not nice? It seems to me that this is bordering on sexual "political correctness" but that is my opinion. Would love to hear from others in regard to this.
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Home Improvement
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Posted:Apr 12, 2008 9:05 pm
Last Updated:Apr 13, 2008 5:08 pm
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I admit it. I am sometimes bored and come across some unusual sex sites in my "random" sex searches. I came across one that has an article on homemade sex toys.
Here is one of the toys that can be made at home according to the site. These are the instructions:
Banana Dildo:
1. Peel a large, firm banana.
2. Roll a condom over the banana and tie a knot in the end. Bury the banana like a dildo or pirate treasure.( Nice descriptive wording even. )
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