trick time
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Posted:Nov 13, 2014 5:05 pm
Last Updated:Dec 7, 2016 7:52 am
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I wrestle with what is popularly called a "sex addiction," in that I fantasize about sex almost constantly, and act on those fantasies at almost every possible opportunity. It took me many years to get past the connection between sex and love, but once that split occurred, I was able to truly enjoy sex for what it is, in all its marvelous intricacies and implications.
Some tricks keep you waiting for more than 20 years. Like, hypothetically, a guy you knew casually from your halcyon days as a club bunny 20 years ago. He was dark and intense and handsome back then, broodily sucking on an ever-present cigarette while "You Spin me 'Round" or "Finally" or whatever else pounded through the speakers. You were cordial with him, and a bit braver after a few (or a dozen) watered-down cocktails, but it never got to any stage beyond harmless flirtation.
Then, more than 20 years later, you're invited by some faceless torso to the other side of the city for a romp. As you're getting closer to the house, you realize you have been there before, but not with the possessor of the hot torso, perhaps a previous homeowner or a boyfriend or ex of the torso. You ring the doorbell, and the torso turns out to be the guy from the club 20 years ago. He looks older, more muscled, with a thick head of grey hair in place of the dark brown locks he once sported. You remark that he looks a lot like Colton Ford, right down to the smooth, tight ass, the big muscular chest, and the huge, thick cock. You make up for lost time hungrily, sometimes painfully, more like animals in heat than like two long-lost acquaintances. You end up doing things with him that you don't do with other guys. The entire experience is blissful, and all the better for waiting more than 20 years for it.
The next day, still speaking hypothetically, you meet a handsome young Latin guy on a mobile phone app, exchange four or five lines of text, and he immediately shows up at your place. He's new to town, just moved here from California, very intelligent and well-mannered, with a smooth, tight body, a clean, smooth ass, and a big, thick, dark, downward-curved cock. Within the space of 20 minutes, he leaves, but not before he's fucked your face, choking you in the process, and then (safely) fucked your still-tender ass. Even though you had promised yourself to do no more than suck a load out of him, and not allow yourself to cum, you spray a huge load all over his chest as he's cumming.
Trick time follows no rules, obeys no patterns. It can be as quick as a 20-minute encounter or as long a "courtship" as 20 years or more. Most people would be sated by two hypothetical hot guy fucks in two days. A sex addict, on the other hand, might plan to attend a bath-house orgy with his partner and the handsome Latin guy later tonight. What will he run out of first: tricks, or spunk?
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"What are you into?"
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Posted:Oct 18, 2014 5:29 pm
Last Updated:May 29, 2024 4:21 pm
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"What are you into?" is the "How are you?" of the gay digital "dating" world, and I've pretty much written the same thing for the past decade:
"Pretty open, depending on the time and place and chemistry. Love kissing, touching, cuddling, mutual jacking, sucking, 69ing, fucking, pretty much anything. I have a partner and love doing threesomes, but twosomes work nicely for me too. I have a huge sex drive, am horny almost all the time, and am a fun, energetic, passionate guy. I also love exploring kinks and fetishes when the pairing is right--anything from leather, rubber, piss, bondage, s&m, jockstraps, socks, boots, whatever. I am a very giving and attentive sex partner, and like to make sure the other guys' toes curl with pleasure, whatever we're doing. What about you?"
There are a few things I could add, such as my enjoyment of creating photographs and videos during sex, watching porn, public nudity and sex, being verbal and loud during sex, dirty talk, music during sex, waking up next to a guy. Some things are more fun when discovered on the spot, in the heat of the moment. I'm "into" an array of fun and interesting things, whether in the bedroom or outside.
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on cam
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Posted:Jun 4, 2014 6:42 am
Last Updated:Dec 7, 2016 7:53 am
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I enjoy getting on my webcam and giving the boys and girls a bit of a show, it satisfies my exhibitionist bent. I also love looking at other people getting off on cam, which makes me a prurient voyeur also. I don't get the mentality of guys who are offended if someone who is not their type (gay, straight, old, young, fat, thin, whatever) is watching them on cam and they immediately stop broadcasting, as if they've just been violated. Sorry I offended you while you had your junk hanging out for the world to see! Maybe, if you're that sensitive about your audience, you're better off just tucking it back in your pants and turning off your cam!
If I'm doing a little cam show, I'm probably watching someone else get off. I probably have my microphone turned on so you can hear me moan and mumble and talk, which I always think is so much hotter than silence. I appreciate anyone watching and enjoying my show, but probably won't respond to personal messages, since my focus is on the task at hand. I will, however, happily write you back if you send me a message.
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first time
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Posted:Mar 27, 2014 10:00 am
Last Updated:Dec 20, 2015 9:29 pm
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There's a first time for everything. I don't really want to talk about "my first time," my first sexual experience, since I think that's a bit of a private matter and not appropriate for the internet. It's like these idiotic people who feel compelled to over-share on facebook and twitter. By "first time," I was thinking more about the first time you hook up with someone, that initial meeting. It makes all of us a bit nervous, no matter how many such first meetings you might have had in your past. Meeting someone for the first time is like your very first time in that the chemistry is unpredictable and just might change everything in your life. No wonder we get nervous, rely on alcohol or other drugs, chicken out, make any excuse to get out of the situation. Maybe you won't click, maybe you won't be each other's type, maybe you won't even get to the first kiss, never mind the first sexual encounter. Maybe you will but the sex will be bad. Maybe he or she will get clingy, or weird, or be too standoffish, or any number of things. You have to persevere, because human beings are inherently social creatures and we have less opportunities for sharing intimacies in our technological, digital world. We're losing our ability to relate to one another. The first time you meet someone, that potential for intimacy is momentarily renewed, even if only for the time it takes to get both of you off. Embrace and celebrate that first time. It might be the first step in the journey of a thousand miles or it might amount to nothing, but at least you can say you tried.
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sexting
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Posted:Mar 26, 2014 1:48 pm
Last Updated:Apr 2, 2014 8:20 pm
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Let me state from the outset that I enjoy sexting (exchanging sexually-charged texts messages) as much as the next guy, especially when it's accompanied by sexy photos. It's a good way to get to know someone, or to build up a bit of sexual tension before meeting, or just to flirt. What I don't enjoy is when sexting becomes a substitute for actual contact. I've been approached by individuals on numerous occasions in this site and others who wanted me to detail exactly what we would do if we were naked together. I usually reply, politely as that is my nature, that I would rather demonstrate than explain. I never have too much of an agenda, preferring to let chemistry, time, moods, and surroundings help shape what the encounter will be. I'm a spontaneous kinda guy, even if I sometimes travel with one of several gear-bags loaded with toys and other fun stuff. I enjoy chatting, I enjoy flirting, and sexting is part of this social repertoire. The focus for me, however, is almost always on the actual meeting. If it can't/won't take place, then all the chit-chat, flirting, and sexting is a waste of both of our time.
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friendly
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Posted:Mar 10, 2014 4:54 pm
Last Updated:Mar 27, 2014 1:39 pm
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I realize not everyone has great manners or social skills, call them what you will. I'm just frustrated by the lack of common courtesy shown by so many people online. None of us is everyone's type, and as horny as I get, I sometimes find it necessary to turn down an offer. I try to do so firmly but politely. I'm always flattered by anyone's attention, as long as it doesn't get disrespectful and bothersome. I would never presume to call myself friendly, well-mannered, nice, or sociable if I didn't actually enjoy the company of another person, even if only for a sexual connection. As it happens, I enjoy company beyond the bedroom. If I meet someone and we don't connect on a sexual level, there is still the possibility for making a connection on another level. I am a friendly guy, and I make a great friend. I'm also a tireless horndog and have a lot of fun in the bedroom (kitchen, living room, balcony, car, wherever).
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