:DI am new to this particular site and for that matter this is my first x-rated site. I am not exactly sure how this all works, the best way to approach people, but I am sure I will figure it all out soon. I do know a couple of things already and they seem to be universal even here in x-rated dating world. 1. I should not send unsolicited dick pics. This a good thing considering that I do some community related work and mostly with youngsters, so having pictures of my junk out in public is not the best idea. (That being said I understand at some point there may be a request for a pic due to quid pro quo, I will happily private message in that case.) & 2. Just from reading a few different profiles as well as comments on peoples pictures I am noticing that even here you can not send one liner propositions to women and expect them to reply with an invitation. So that means the all too smooth lines like "wanna fuck" and "you're hot" among other literary masterworks of seduction do not work even when a woman specifically states on her profile that she wants to fuck, haha. I have taken note and hopefully learned enough from those before me so that I come correct. It seems like common sense, nothing worth it is easy. No matter what a woman is looking for, she still wants to see some effort, I mean this is not backpage and the women here aren't Pro's, :)) ... Not sure at this point how deep I am willing to venture into the rabbit hole, but I am pretty sure in well be fun trip down regardless. I am a single father, I work and go to school full-time, as well as volunteer, so I do not have a lot of free time. I definitely don't have the free time needed to start a successful committed relationship, In a relationship like that it is expected that you really put in time and effort, and I take that seriously I don't want a woman to think I just put in enough time to get them and then I got lazy and comfortable. What do I have time for? I do have time to talk here and there to get to know someone, to meet out if need be even if it takes a few times before there is enough trust, I can do dinner/movie/show/concert/ or any other list of dates every couple weeks or so if needed, I just can't give that contact every night, going out every weekend and on some weekdays and if I can't give all that and more if needed then I don't think it is fair of me to waste someone's time. I feel like here I can find people that want to hang out here and there and want to enjoy the pleasures of adulthood but also aren't looking for something to put a label on. I will not put the brakes on anything though, if I am hanging out with someone and we are catching feelings and something grows organically into a serious relationship or whatever, then that is cool. I will roll with whatever happens, I am just not trying to force or make anything happen. Hopefully this explains a little bit about the kind of per I am and what it is I am looking for, or maybe all I have done is confused the shit out of anyone who has taken the time to read this far.

My Ideal Person My ideal person???hhmm....I will start with physical description because a picture is worth a thousand words, so we all check out those oics real quick before we start reading profiles.
Physically-- I just like women period end of story. I know it seems corny but I am serious I just love females of all kinds. It doesn't matter to me short or tall, thick or thin, blonde/brunette/redhead/purple hair don't care, big or little breasts, black white asian latino etc. etc. all good to me, ass well I do like if a woman has some ass to her, it does't have to be a big butt because there can be nice butts on little petite women too, I just can't have an ass like a frying pan there has to be a shape, haha. That is it though as for the rest I meant it, there are different things that I find attractive in all different types of women, it is just dependent on that individual woman, well the majority of them.
Personality-- I like an intelligent woman someone that can have a conversation on many different topics and know what she is talking about. She doesn't have to be a Rhodes Scholar or a card carrying member of Mensa because I'm not either, that Chicken of the Sea is tuna fish and not actually chicken from the sea.
I like a sense of humor, this again just makes conversation that much better. This pretty self explanatory who doesn't like to laugh?
Confidence is something I find sexy. If a woman knows what she wants and isn't timid about getting it then I am starting to get excited. Confident women aren't over bearing or the jealous type either, because they know that what they have to offer is better than anything you can find anywhere else and if you don't think so than that is your loss because they know they are still the shit and it's the person who stepped out that has shit to work on.
Adventurous, just be willing to try new things, eat some bizarre foods or at least food that are new to you, do something/someone new while you are somewhere new, get in the car and go, say fuck it, get crazy, be open to experience life and have fun living it.
There is more and I am always adding new things as I meet new people, people can be so awesome and can share some amazing parts of themselves, I just try to be awake and open to it.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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