I am a chinese single male,average looks and height but that is subject to indivudual view. I consider myself to be an open and honest person and I tend to take a fairly relaxed approach to life nowadays after my divorced. I work in a Swiss company as a production manager. I am actually still very active and young at heart although I'm already 37 and quite a no of gray hair but I think in general I am in fairly reasonable shape for my age and I do have a fairly high sex drive. I live in PJ, I like to go out to pubs,clubs/restaurants etc. I'm particularly fond of good live music venus but no hard rock please. I do like my fun out and about on the town thats for sure but I'm not a 100% full on party animal,I like quiet nights in other times also.I can easily leave the big nights out around the city off my list of must do things nowadays! sexually wise I quite like long sensual nights in with lots of caressing and foreplay. other times I like fairly passionate sex and I'm very open to experimentation so long as it does not involve pain in anyway to either of us. I find a variety of sexual partners very fulfilling both mentally and physically,I would expect you to have a similar view on this to me. I like to travel in the region on my time off and maybe one day you could join me and travel together when you had the time. To me some of most important things in any relationship are as follows should we click. we must both openly and honestly discuss our personnel likes/dislikes and fantasies very early on so we can both get the maximum benefit out of our relationship both mentally and physically. I also think it should be fun after all it's recreational sex were engaging in so lets enjoy our selves! I would love to hear from you about your own views and opinions if you are willing to share with me.

My Ideal Person I'm looking for a non committal relationship that we can both enjoy for what it is. I have found that this realistic approach has worked well in the past with no heartache fuss or dramas for either of us.

I'm not pretending to be anything I'm not and I would hope you would act in a similar manner also. I'm a mature educated professional person and I am not into head games and I hope your not either.

Intelligent cynical/controversial conversation tied in with a small bit of mischief is however very very welcome here.

If we decide to meet up lets just go out for a drink or dinner first and have a bit of a chat. There is absolutely no pressure on either of us for the evening to end in a session of the bedroom Olympics!The most important thing is we have some fun!

If you've taken the trouble to read this far down and a stream of little question mark bubbles has starting to form above your head perhaps there may be something in it for the both of us.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
No particular place, The beach, A dark back alley, A movie theatre, A remote wilderness spot, My desk at work, A store dressing room

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Receiving Oral Sex, Mutual Masturbation

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