We are are an easygoing couple, happily married for several years. We have been talking occasionally about having a little fun with others, but we haven't done anything about it yet. Things are a still little early at this stage. We are just looking, and haven't made any decisions to do anything with others, never mind what to do. Generally vanilla, happily. When going beyond vanilla, She likes to be bound, but w/o any pain. He is more of a switch, when bound he likes somewhat higher intensity (clothespins, spanking, more?) We are a professional couple, somewhat shy. Clean, discreet, disease-free, no drugs.

My Ideal Person We haven't done this before. For now we are only looking at other M/F couple's profiles to figure out what our next move is. If/when we start to go ahead with this, we would probably want only email contact for a couple days, then maybe phone. Dinner or drinks out to better see compatibility. If things go well, we would probably want to watch and/or be watched at first, and then see how things go from there.
At this stage, we are only looking. Also, we don't check this account that frequently. If you email, and we don't respond quickly, don't be offended.