Ask Away
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Posted:Apr 11, 2008 8:04 pm
Last Updated:Mar 11, 2009 9:22 pm
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This here gives ya'll a chance to ask me
anything. NO LIMITS of anything, sexual or not.
I will answer truthfully. So, ASK away
people....give me your best shot 
ASK ME!!
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When does "Cougarness" start?
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Posted:Oct 5, 2009 10:26 pm
Last Updated:Oct 6, 2009 2:06 pm
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I know that to become a cougar you have to be the one chasing the youngins but really when does that consider to be "cougarness"?
Most will say it's when a woman turns 40 she is a cougar. BUT, if I were to be hitting on an 18yr old, being 11yrs his senior, wouldn't that be considered an act of cougarness?
Is it really more the age difference or what? Or is it pretty much strictly defined for when a woman hits a certain age?
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Lesbian for a day
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Posted:Oct 5, 2009 9:50 pm
Last Updated:Oct 6, 2009 2:06 pm
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I just want to be a lesbian for a day. And then repeat the cycle like once or twice a month.
I had some girlfriends over this past weekend and great food, great drinks and we usually get crazy as it is but after feeling some titties on Saturday night I just got the craving for more. Guess it's just been so long since I've had the soft lips of a woman's against my own. There is just something electrifying about having a woman kiss your neck as you feel her breasts against your own.
I just want to be a lesbian for a day.
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And The Road Goes On Forever
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Posted:Oct 4, 2009 11:48 am
Last Updated:Oct 5, 2009 9:44 pm
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I turn 30 this month. Course I've already been hearing the "old" jokes and I don't feel old. Well, somedays I do but not usually. Yet I find myself missing the free days. The days of no , no huge financial burdens, less responsibility. It isn't so much walking down memory lane it is just wanting some of that back. Parents on here will know what I'm talking about. I wouldn't trade my for nothing and I am glad hubby and I waited a little bit to have them but I dunno, maybe a sliver of a middle age breakdown.
Though.....30 isn't middle age. Unless you look at the fact that we our life expectancy is still rated below 80, 30 would be close. ugh...
I guess I just don't know how to feel about turning 30 this year. Anyone else have this complex?
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Well Holy Hell!
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Posted:Aug 26, 2009 10:25 am
Last Updated:Sep 6, 2009 5:04 pm
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I have been away so long that when I logged into the site I didn't actually expect to still be a member here! AND I especially did not think that I still had 26 watchers! OMG! ya'll are some faithful, loyal people!!!
WELL: it's been what? months since I was here last. Had some pretty interesting events over the past few months and needless to say if I wanted to bore ya'll with that I could blog for months with that information.....BUT.....let's not and say we did!
As most of ya know I was pregnant and BigBalls and I had a beautiful baby boy in July. The c-section went perfectly and since then we've been busy just taking care of the two little ones. BigBalls has found another job and now that I have gotten the okay from the doctor my job searching begins. There isn't a whole lot out there for sure. Knowing what I need to make to afford 2 in daycare and follow those hours all the while making it worth it to commute and and have something left over........yeah, minimal
But I have missed many people from here. BigBalls and I are still not going to resume our playtime and are not generating of course any new contacts so it looks like it will continue to be just blogging for me!
And to tell you the truth, with the stress and trying times these past months, I don't have the energy for playtime anyways! Nor the time!
So, I'm back ya'll! Not a daily adventurer here anymore but definitely going to stick around!
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well, it happened
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Posted:Apr 20, 2009 11:55 am
Last Updated:Apr 27, 2009 8:56 pm
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Last week we were given the bad news of hubby losing his job.
We've been through the shock now and in the process of doing what we gotta do to pay the bills and have food on the table. Drastic changes have been made and we have to get used to them. We are okay. The next few months are going to be rocky and uncertain but I think in the end we'll see the sun shine again.
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"Thought" they were friends
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Posted:Mar 26, 2009 10:28 pm
Last Updated:Aug 27, 2009 4:59 am
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Hubby and I have been on this site for well over a year now and we've attended parties, have mingled, very social and have made many "friends" on this site of our lifestyle. Some you talk to more often than others, some drift away or whatever.
As of last November, becoming pregnant our playing has stopped. Naturally, we lost touch with a lot of others and since we don't come online quite as often as before, we are not up to date on everyone's latest adventures. We do have some that we text or talk to from time to time. It's nice to know that a friendship can form and continue even if you rarely see the people.
Case in point of a total mis-handling of information and some untrusting behavior though has occured. We just recently found out that a so-called closer friend has made some problems. They are a married couple that we got to know and adored. Very lovable, very funny and just great to hang out with. Rather at a party or at their house with a gathering of people for BBQs. Well, the wife of this couple and my hubby would text back and forth more often than I did with either of them. Totally platonic with friendly flirting......exactly how we are with basically everyone we see at parties.....well, APPARENTLY a misrepresentation of their conversations has been told to the husband. Along the lines of trying to persuade the wife to meet my hubby alone and play. Other innuendos and whatnot.
Now, we would NEVER try to abuse the rules of another couple. We don't play with couples and we NEVER play with close friends. Those are our rules that were made in the beginning. Flirting is in our nature and I think that maybe that has had a hand in this being taken too far. I trust my husband that he would not try to be secretative with our friends. These are people that we looked to for advice, that we learned some things from and always cherished them as friends. We were invited into their home and into their circle of friends and would have NEVER done anything to jeopordize this friendship. Intentional or not.
So, hubby and I are a bit upset with the wife for falsifying some things that were said to her husband. At this point the husband is upset with my husband. I don't blame him, he should be able to trust his wife too right?
We don't have hatred for them, after knowing them for so long it's hard to even come close to it. We are more disappointed in the mis-using of the friendship than anything. I do wish the husband could've at least made contact to ask for himself if anything was true. That's his choice though and we hope the truth comes out eventually. We still adore these people. Everyone makes mistakes and it's forgivable......just wish it didn't have to happen this way.
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What to do? Need some networking here!
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Posted:Mar 24, 2009 8:26 pm
Last Updated:May 1, 2024 3:59 pm
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Hubby calls me today, can't talk long, he just got out of his pre-working meeting. Apparently starting March 30th, he will be receiving a 10% income cut. That estimates about $180 per paycheck. Not a significant amount but they've already taken away any bonus that can range from $300-$900 at any given time. Kind of just a rough estimate of our anuual loss for these two cut-backs at hubby's job......$15,000.00 loss for the year.
Now, I don't work. Course I'm having a baby and if I thought any company would hire me at 6months pregnant I'd be already working there. Any "at-home" jobs require an investment and personally, I'm not comfortable with that. Why should I PAY to work??
So, now I gotta try to figure where to cut our budget for the $360 we will be losing next month.
Hubby said he's gunna look for something for his days off. I really don't want him to have to work 2 jobs. He works hard enough as it is on the oil-rig.
I'm gunna have to figure something out. Anyone know of a "at-home" opportunity that doesn't require an investment??
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I'm SO Stupid!
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Posted:Mar 21, 2009 12:22 pm
Last Updated:Mar 24, 2009 7:51 pm
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Here I am, getting to month 6 of my pregnancy and I can't even complete a thorough thought! I mean, I can start thinking of something, or even start saying something, and then a blankness overcomes me and I'm lost. Wandering aimlessly around my brain in the dark!
What was I talking about again?
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Sex Toy Shopping.......help?
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Posted:Mar 15, 2009 1:25 pm
Last Updated:Mar 30, 2009 9:12 am
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Later this week I will be venturing to a sex-boutique to do some shopping for a girlfriend that has a birthday this week. She is turning 24 and has never owned a toy or other "enhancing" product to use with her sex-life. She currently is serious with a boyfriend that she lives with and he's the type that isn't sure about "toys" The kind that thinks she'll stop having sex with him and just play with her toys......yeah, one of those!
Soooo.....she is a beginner and I don't want to get anything too extreme as to not to scare her or piss the boyfriend off where she won't use it anyways.........
HELP!
It's been so long since I was a beginner that maybe ya'll could help with some ideas??
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